Long-Time Listener, First-Time Voter

Today marked an auspicious event in my oldest grandson’s life. This long-time listener and observer of world and American politics exercised the rights afforded him by turning 18 years of age back in June of last year and became a first-time voter this morning during early voting in Florida. He’s been eagerly awaiting this opportunity for a long time.

Congratulations Mikey!

I’m especially pleased that exercising his right to vote is important to him. I know that, for some people, it is not. And I even understand some of their reasons for that.

Vote (I Did!) stickerBut it has always been important to me, especially in presidential elections. I could not vote in a presidential election until I was 21 because of my how my birthday fell in relation to national election years, so it excites me that he could do so this soon after his 18th birthday.

Mikey doesn’t like to have photos taken of himself, but I asked his mom if she could try and get him to let one be taken of him this time for the importance of this occasion (and yes, so granddad could see his oldest grandson voting for the first time) and thankfully he agreed. The only stipulation was I could not share it on social media, so I can’t show it to you. But he looked very proud holding his “VOTE (I Did!) sticker in front of the polling place, and I’m proud too.

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Flying The Friendly Skies of COVID-19

CoronavirusA week from tomorrow I fly from San Juan to Orlando, a flight I’ve taken many times in the past almost-two-years that I’ve been working here on The Enchanted Island.

Regardless of whether I’ve taken the 5am flight out or the later 6:20am flight out, one thing has remained consistent; the plane is always full. And I mean completely full or one empty seat.

That’s it.

There are a couple of reasons for this:

  1. There is, and has been for 30+ years, a large Puerto Rican population in Orlando. Friends and family members travel back and forth to visit all the time.
  2. Disney World, Universal Studios and, to a lesser extent, Sea World. Families come to Orlando all the time to visit the theme parks. They are what keep the Central Florida economy moving, as we found out when 9/11 happened and tourism in the area dried up to almost nothing.

Disney World

 

So I’m curious to see what effect COVID-19 will have on my usual flight home next Friday.

Empty airplane seatsWe’re hearing anecdotal stories from other flyers in the U.S. that their flights, when available, are not flying with the usual number of passengers. I’m wondering; will the plane be full as usual or only partially full? Will it even be half full?  Will families decide not to take their children to theme parks in an effort to reduce exposure to the virus? Will grandparents opt of visiting their families because they (the grandparents) are more susceptible to the virus?

Or will everything be more or less…normal?

People in airport with COVID-19 maskaIt’s something I won’t probably know until next Friday morning when I arrive at the airport, unless something else happens in the next 7 days, which is entirely in the realm of probability. This thing is blossoming all over the world and the U.S. so quickly that we really don’t know what the next week will bring.

But we’ll find out in a little over a week. See you then.

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Happy Leap Day and Happy Birthday Superman!

Leap Day

Today is that day that only rolls around every four years; Leap Day. In school we were taught that every year has 365 days…except Leap Year which occurs every four years on February 29th. The reason is that February 29th every four years helps keep our calendars aligned with planet Earth’s rotation around the sun.

Mike Lombardi, who leads the Time and Frequency Services Group at the National Institute of Standards and Technology (NIST) and is a timekeeping expert explains, “A year is about 365.25 days long, so adding one extra day every four years is necessary to keep the calendars accurate.”

Six hours doesn’t seem like much difference, but after four years we’d be an entire day behind. A decade down the road our calendars would be 2.5 days off. So February 29th is essential to our keeping measurements of time in sync.

Superman’s Birthday

But, more importantly, February 29th is the day Superman celebrates his birth. Now, I know the first comic book Superman appeared in was published in 1938, which was NOT a leap year (that would come two years later in 1940), but we’re talking about the characters’ birthday and that has been established by the company that has been publishing comic books with Superman in them since that historic date.

Back during the Silver Age of comics (the best Age, in this writer’s mind) editor Julie Schwartz stated on a number of comic book letter pages that Superman’s official birthday was on February 29th. At the time it was as a sort of lark on his part to “explain” why Superman could still appear to be young, since his birthday would have come around every four years instead of every year.

That declaration stuck.

When “Time” magazine published a story about the character in 1988 that story stated the character’s birthdate was…February 29th!

There was even a story in Superman Annual #11 that showed Superman’s friends gather to wish him a happy birthday on…February 29th!

Page from Superman Annual #11

Here’s a link to an article that goes into much more detail about the subject, if you have an interest in this sort of thing.

So, Happy Leap Day to all and Happy Birthday to Superman, the greatest hero of all time!

Fellow superheroes wishing Superman a Happy Birthday

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The Heart Knows What The Mind Does Not

The 17th century philosopher, Pascal, wrote “The heart has its reasons which reason knows nothing of.” that I have paraphrased as the heart knows what the mind does not.

It’s been a nasty couple of days and my mood has reflected it, though I wasn’t quite sure why.

Yesterday afternoon I had some unpleasant news shared from my employer, not for me specifically but for all of us, that soured me a lot more than I expected it to. An incident in the office also found me reacting more harshly than is usual for me. Sleep last night was fitful and this morning… well, as I put it to Cindy, “I’m very short-tempered and I don’t like that.” I know I have not been my usual self around my co-workers, but they have been gracious enough not to mention it. And I have tried to purposefully be my best, but I don’t have a poker face and sometimes my sarcasm will not be reined in, lol.

When I ended our usual morning call with Cindy today she closed by saying, “Whenever you’re feeling aggravated and frustrated today, please remember that I love you.” And some people might laugh, but those words and that concern from her heart lightened my own heart quite a bit.

Then, later today, the fact that the heart knows what the mind does not was borne out when I realized during a walk to lunch that it was 10 years ago tonight, February 27, 2010, that my mother passed away. Sometimes my grief and sadness manifest itself in the exact feelings I described above. I’m not proud of that, just acknowledging that it happens. Even when I’m not conscious of the “why”, they still pop up.

Mom in 1990

I wouldn’t say that realizing the sad anniversary was on my mind even when I wasn’t consciously thinking about it has removed all of my nasty mood, but at least I think I know now why these things that I can usually “roll” with have instead heavily pulled me down the past couple of days.

Because the heart knows what the mind does not.

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Misssion Rehearsal Training at the NETC

FEMA Emergency Management Institute logoLast Sunday, February 2nd, I flew to BWI to attend a week of Mission Rehearsal Training at the National Emergency Training Center/Emergency Management Institute located in Emmitsburg, MD.

After a 90-minute bus drive with about 30 other students, some for the class I would be in and some for other classes taking place that week, I arrived at the intake center, got my room assignment and went to the dining hall for dinner before returning to my room in time for the the Super Bowl.

It was a good week of classes on leadership skills, lessons on emergency management processes, exercises that honed our abilities we have gained over the years, and an enjoyable time of catching up with friends and fellow emergency managers (some whom I hadn’t seen in a few years as we have been spread across the country) and finally meeting others I’ve only known by reputation.

Below is a video I made of a few photos from the campus and several selfies I took on the last day of class with many of my old friends and new ones. Even so, I missed getting pictures with some that I wanted to include. Maybe next time. 🙂

 

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Left My Phone In The Uber

You know that thing you say you’ll never do? And then how you feel when you do it? That was me yesterday afternoon.

Don’t be like me; prepare yourself for the inevitable.

Uber LogoWhile I’ve been deployed to Puerto Rico I have been “Ubering” back and forth from the hotel to the office. It’s much more convenient than using a rental car for many reasons. Drivers here in San Juan are, with all due respect, Keerazy! Traffic is, as in most metropolitan areas around the world, jam-packed. And parking is a nightmare, not to mention expensive.

Occasionally I’ve gotten into the back seat of my Uber ride to find something left behind by a previous customer. A book, a wad of dollars bills, and a half sandwich have been among the treasures left behind. But most of the time it’s a used tissue or Kleenex and usually it’s stuffed into the recessed door handle. Because yeah, people want to be dicks.

And, drivers are supposed to look in the back seating area when you get out, but these folks are hustling for the next ride so I get that they don’t always do that.

Anyway, since I usually only have my backpack and my two cell phones (one work, one personal) with me I normally concentrate on being sure the work one is in my pocket or my hand and that the personal one is in my belt holster or my hand when I get out of the car.

Yesterday afternoon I was scrolling though social media on my personal phone when we pulled into the hotel driveway, so I unbuckled my seat belt, slid my phone into the belt holster, picked up my backpack from the seat, told the driver “Thank you”, exited the car, strolled into the lobby, took the elevator up to my room, walked in and placed my backpack on the couch, then emptied my shirt pocket. My shirt pocket is where i keep my Bluetooth earpiece and when I removed it from my pocket I thought, “Well, I’ll just go ahead and put it in my ear and turn it on so I’ll be ready to talk to Cindy when she calls.”

But when I turned it on, instead of hearing the usual words “Phone one connected” I heard “No phone can be located.”

My hand immediately slapped down to my belt holster, which of course was empty. I remembered then that when I was placing my phone in the holster on auto-pilot it sort of felt funny but I just assumed it was because I was moving to get out of the car at the same time. Turns out I had not really put it in the holder.

Cell Phone in seat of car

Panic.

Not the kind of panic I felt a few years ago when I realized I had gone snorkeling for 30 minutes with my phone in my bathing suit pocket, but a high enough level that I know my blood pressure spiked, lol.

So I immediately grabbed my iPad out of the hotel room safe and started to Google “phone left in Uber” and while I was doing that my co-worker from HQ called about something work-related and when I mentioned what I had done and was doing she related that plenty of her friends have done the same thing and it’s easy to just go on the app and report it.

So I start downloading the app to my iPad while we’re talking about the work-related thing and just about the time we finish our conversation the app finishes downloading. The first thing it wants is your mobile number and when I enter that it helpfully says “Please enter the code that was sent to your phone.”

Arghh!

The app does not have any other way to log in (like using your username and password) until you enter that code.

So, back to Google. OK here’s a number you can call, so I call it. It’s a recording that basically says, “You’re SOL if you’re not a member of this high-falutin’ club for special subscribers.”

I’m not, so I am.

Then I go to Twitter, look up Uber and follow and then I get a recommendation to follow another Uber account if I’ve left something in a car. Eureka!

I follow it and DM them and within seconds they DM me a link to a site when I can log in with my username and password. My last ride pops up and I click a button that connect me by phone to my driver!

“Hi Jeff, yes you left your phone in the backseat. I dropped you off at BLANK, correct?”

“Yes, you did.”

“I can be back there in about 40 minutes.”

“Thank you!”

Man on psychiatrist’s couch saying “My smart phone thinks I’m an idiot”Now, when you use this link it says that drivers are busy and it may take a while and, to make up for their lost time in taking you something you stupidly (my word, not theirs) left in their car, an additional $15 will be tacked on to your fare.

Fine with me, ring it up!

I go sit in the lobby by the door and I’m expecting him to drive up and I’ll run outside and get the phone but in about 25 minutes here he comes walking through the door. He had parked to come inside!

I jump up to greet him, seeing he is holding my baby (“I’ll never let you go again, sweetie. And tonight, instead of being on the nightstand next to the bed, you can sleep in the bed with me and we’ll cuddle.”) and I smile my best smile at him while he is extending my phone toward me. I take out my last $20 bill and hand it to him as he hands me the phone, then shake his hand and tell him “Thank you” as he looks at the $20 and says “Thank you” and we both smile and go our separate ways.

My 45 minutes of horror, has ended and all is right with the world.

So, instead of thinking it will never happen to me again, I have now installed the Uber app on my iPad as well so I can access it from a secondary device if I ever need to and be prepared for the inevitable

And, big thanks to the Uber Twitter account folks and to my driver who was kind enough to bring my phone back to me.

By the way, Cindy thought I was just trying to get another phone, but I’m really waiting until the new ones come out later this year so mine will be better than hers, which she got by trying to fall off the jetty in Palm Beach last year!

Gif of cat looking for something n bed sheets

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“Old Man Bob’s Young Boy Days” – Book Review

A short, but powerful, book that looks like it is meant to be a children’s book but is in reality a book for all of us “more mature” readers and the child that remains within each of us.

Book Cover of “Old Man Bob’s Young Boy Days”

Bob takes us on a journey to his own childhood, remembering events and occasions from his life as a boy. A time when, as the book’s description states, “We played outside with friends. Life was slower and closer to where we were. No video games or smart phones. No Internet or large flat screen televisions. Computers were as big as a house and telephones had cords.”

These are Bob’s memories, but really they could be anyone’s memories and that, in point of fact, is the purpose of the book. When you get to the end of the book and Bob’s reminisces, he invites you to take the same journey within your own memories.

The book is beautifully illustrated by Rosanna Arias with a whimsical yet realistic style that reinforces the way Bob remembers himself and, likewise, how we remember ourselves.

FULL DISCLOSURE: Bob is a friend and co-worker of mine, but I purchased this book at full price myself and this review is my own.

You can order this delightful book HERE

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Where to Find Me Online in 2020

Where to Find Me Online and on Social Media in 2020

Facebook

Where everybody hangs out, not because they necessarily WANT to but because…it’s where everyone else is at?

Well, if you’re looking for a change, see below.

MeWe

Like a lot of people, I am on Facebook but am not happy to be on Facebook.

I change my settings to what I want and in the dark of night Facebook changes them back to whatever they want. I’m sick of the ads that seem to outnumber the posts of people and groups I follow. For some reason, posts of people I follow don’t show up in my feed when they post them but instead a day or more later suddenly pop up as if they are current. My wife is designated as someone whose posts I want to see first, but that hardly ever happens. In general, I’m only on Facebook because my family, friends, and co-workers are on there.

So I’ve been trying out MeWe for about a month. I have no family, friends, or co-workers as contacts on there at the moment, but I have been participating in some pretty decent groups about travel, blogging, photography, and a couple of other interests. There are no ads (the site is supported by users purchasing extras, but I haven’t seen the need to make use of any of those extras at this time), no tracking of you to other sites, and no data mining of your personal information. You enter your settings and they stay what you entered.

As their tag line says: “No Ads. No Spyware. No BS. The Next-Gen Social Network”

You can access MeWe as a webpage or using their app.

So, if you’re interested in an alternative to Facebook, come on over and look me up. The link above should take you right to me. This QFR is supposed to work as well.

I’m sure it will be an even more engaging site with friends, family, and co-workers taking part.

Twitter

Instagram

More photos here than my other sites, but they’re all iPhone camera shots, not DSLR.

View my photos on 500px

As you can see, I haven’t posted any photos in 6 years, but I’m hoping to change that soon.

View my photos on Flickr

Again, haven’t posted any photos in a while but there a LOT of photos from over the years; some pretty good, some not so good.

View my videos on YouTube

It’s been a year since I posted any videos here, but there are about 50 videos going back 10 years that might be fun to look at.

See what I’ve pinned on Pinterest

I was never really sure what Pinterest was for, but I stored a lot of images there, mostly comic book covers or comic book related art, along with some odd retro photos and cartoons.

Tumblr

Just a clone of this blog. Not sure what else to do on Tumblr. I need to explore it more. Any suggestions?

Here at my Blog

I plan to be more regular in posting here. Right now, I’m shooting for once a week. If you sign up on the right, you’ll get an email notice every time there’s a new post.

I think that’s about it. If you have any suggestions of great places to be or post, drop a link in the comments below. I’d love to see your places to be.

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Happy New Year, 2020!

Hashtag Image for Happy New Year 2020

It is a day that focuses on resolutions, but (and if you want to say it’s just semantics, I wouldn’t argue with you) I’ve never been a fan of resolutions and prefer to set goals for the year. Psychologically, the term goals works better for me in setting up a sense of accomplishment.

The first of those goals is to get back to writing these blog posts on a more regular basis.

Hands typing at a laptop keyboard.

So, elephant in the room; this is my first post in quite a while. My last post was in July of 2019 when I wrote a tribute to Michael Schornstein and his tragic passing. And the one before that was back in September of 2018. Needless to say, I have not been as prolific in posting as I was when I started this blog many years ago.

My intention is for that to change in 2020.

I’m writing this a few days before Christmas 2019 and by the time you read it on New Year’s Day 2020 I’ll be in the process of enjoying a few days of rest and relaxation at a first class resort (thank you, hotel points earned through my travels for my employer) on Amelia Island with my wife. I’ll post some photos from the stay in an upcoming blog entry. But writing some posts ahead of time like this will be part of my plan to post more often and more regularly.

I hope you’ll be with me. If you like to have your information gathered in one place via RSS (like I do), you can add this blog feed to your reader. If you prefer to be notified of new posts via email, you can sign up in the area on the right for notification of new posts to your favorite email client. Or, you can just drop in once in a while and see what’s new here. Whatever method you choose, it will be fun to have you along.

Stack of American currency.

My second goal is a combination of several goals that end up resulting in one over-arching goal. My end goal is to retire in 5 1/2 years. Truthfully, I’d prefer to retire in 1 1/2 years, but I don’t want to be bagging groceries or eating dog food in the winter of my life, so I’m stretching out my work years to maximize my SS, 401K and retirement benefits, while paying down a majority of my debt. To that end I’m:

  • A. Aiming for a promotion at work. When I reached the position I’m at now 3 years ago I thought I’d remain there until retiring. I really don’t want the added responsibility of the position above mine. But I’ve been asked to work toward it and the increase in salary would result in an increase to my eventual SS benefit amount, as well as my retirement fund, and allow me to put more into my 401K and investments.
  • B. Reducing debt. This is something we’ve already been doing, but our plan is to kick it into high gear this year. We need to sell one of our homes. The taxes, insurance, and associated expenses are rising every year and since we rent it out we no longer have the homestead exemption to offset. We’ve been reducing our credit card debt and hope to eliminate it this year, only using them to gain travel points and only charging what we can pay off entirely each month to avoid any interest charges.
  • C. Planning for Cindy to close her business. This is something that will most likely happen in the next two years at most. Cindy loves her business and does very well at it, but it is exhausting work and we’re hoping that she’ll have more opportunities to travel with me on the road while I’m working over the remaining years.
Roadside sign that says “Health”

My third goal this year is to improve my overall health. That involves being even more conscious of my diet (which I’m pretty good at after the past two years) and increasing my exercise, which I do not have a strong inclination to do, lol. But, I have two chronic conditions that would ease up if I did, so I NEED to work on those things even more.

My fourth goal is one I have every year, spoken or not, and that is to be a better person. If we can’t continue to grow and improve in our lives, what is the point? I want to be a better person than I was in 2019.

Those are the big four for this year. I have other, smaller, ones such as my photography, learning some new technology, minimizing possessions, travel hacking, etc., but those four are what I’ll be prioritizing.

If you’d like to share yours in the comments, I’d love to be inspired by them.

Happy New Year, 2020!

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The World Has Lost A Hero

The world lost a hero this past Wednesday. His name is Michael Schornstein. He was 48 years and 1 day old, husband to Stephanie and father to 3 adorable children under the age of 5. He was a son and brother. He was a friend to so, so many.

I first met Michael several years ago when he and my daughter’s best friend in high school, Stephanie, came to visit from New York. What struck me most was his genuine smile. I was so delighted to see Stephanie as happy as she was.

Then in 2013 I was in New Jersey working in recovery efforts related to Hurricane Sandy. I took one Saturday to go up to New York City and meet Stephanie and Michael for a day in Chinatown and Little Italy. Stephanie was pregnant with their first child and they both were so happy.

Stephanie got me to try Bubble Tea for the first (and, I’m sorry, last) time and they took me to a wonderful china shop where I was able to get some dishes that Cindy wanted. We walked through Chinatown and Little Italy just visiting and talking and then they took me to a delightful bakery called Ferraro’s before I caught the train back to New Jersey.

It was the last time I saw Michael, though we stayed in touch via Facebook where I loved seeing the photos he would post of their three beautiful children.

Michael was a firefighter, rank of Captain, who had worked, along with thousands of other first responders in recovery efforts on and after 9/11. A couple of years ago he became very ill, no doubt as a result of that work. He underwent extensive treatment that seemed to promise recovery.

Then suddenly, one day after his 48th birthday, he was gone. A husband, father, son, brother, and friend was gone.

The world became a bit dimmer with the absence of his smile and his presence. And though he will remain in our hearts, we will miss him and his part in our lives and the lives of those we love.

The world has lost a hero.

If you’re reading this, please keep his wife Stephanie, his three beautiful, young children and his family in your thoughts.

R.I.P. Captain Michael Schornstein, and thank you for all you were to us.

CORRECTION: Stephanie shared some updated clarifications – Michael was not a 9/11 responder and though he was part of a volunteer fire department, he was not a firefighter. He was with their Ambulance Corps and Captain of the EMT group. I apologize for any misunderstanding I may have caused.

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