Observances In A McDonald’s

Mcdonalds_logo325pxI don’t usually patronize McDonald’s unless my grandkids want to eat there because the golden arches haven’t appealed to me for a long time.

But today, after dropping Cindy off at the DeBary Farmer’s Market so she could have her Mountain Creek Candles booth set up there, I drove to a nearby McDonald’s because they have free wi-fi. I needed to do some bidding on writing jobs, check my RSS feeds, do some research and upload some photos to my new page on 500px.

After about 3 hours I was forced to answer the call of nature. When I entered the men’s room stall and set my backpack down on the baby changing table, I noticed a set of car keys on top of the toilet paper dispenser. After completing my business and washing my hands, I picked up the keys and took them to the counter and told the young lady there that I had found them in the men’s room.

I went back to my seat and set about working again. It was probably 15 minutes later when I felt/saw someone approaching in my peripheral vision and looked up to see a young man walking toward me. He stepped up close to the table and said, “Excuse me. are you the man who turned in my car keys?” as he held up the keys in question.

“Yes,” I replied, “I am.”

“I don’t want to bother you.” he continued. “When I asked the girl at the counter if anyone had turned in a set of car keys she handed them to me and when I asked if whoever turned them in was still here she looked around the dining room and pointed you out. I just wanted to say thank you and ask where you found them.”

I kind of smiled and said, “They were on top of the toilet paper dispenser in the men’s room.”

He slapped his forehead and seemed embarrassed when he said, “I can’t believe I did that! I don’t even remember laying them there.”

“No problem,” I said, “we all have those moments.”

“Well, thank you again. Have a good day.” And off he went.

Sometimes when you’re a loner, it’s hard to get in those good deeds because your interaction with others is so minimal. I felt good thinking I got in at least one today with that simple act.

mcdonalds325pxAbout an hour later I was working away when I heard a crash and an exclamation of “Aw shit!” and looked up to see a man scraping his pancakes off the floor after they fell off his tray when he was walking to a table. I watched him put them back in the styrofoam container and walk back to the counter.

I was kind of surprised and kind of not surprised to hear him tell the young lady at the counter that he had dropped them and would like another order…for free! She was gracious and brought him another order, which was nice but, in my opinion, not warranted.

My thinking is if you bought something and promptly (or even eventually) lost, damaged or destroyed it, why should the seller replace the item at no charge? It’s nice if they offer to do so and most food businesses do that as a matter of course and customer service, but to demand such a replacement due to your own clumsiness is pretty rude.

The icing on the cake was that he was wearing a t-shirt that read, in big, bold black letters, “Let me drop what I’m doing and take care of YOUR problem!

Yeah.

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It’s All Relative

Thanks to my brother for sharing this cartoon with me.

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Throwback Thursday – My Father-In-Law’s 72nd Birthday

Tomorrow my father-in-law will turn 80 years old, so in honor of his birthday I thought I’d post this photo from 2006 when he was 72 and still riding a bicycle around the neighborhood.

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He doesn’t look much different today, which has had me searching his attic for his “picture of Dorian Gray”, though I have yet to locate it.

 

Happy 80th Birthday to the best father-in-law in the world.

 

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The Stuff That Dreams Are Made Of

dreams325pxI came across an interesting article a few weeks ago about things that may influence our dreams. Being an avid dreamer, a weird dreamer and sometimes a nightmare dreamer, I was interested in what things in my life or in this world might be the cause of my somnambulant sojourns.

6 Surprising Things That Can Influence Your Dreams” does indeed contain some surprises.

Number one surprises me because I haven’t slept on my stomach since hitting puberty, yet I think I have my fair share of erotic dreams.

Number two is out of my realm of experience, not having an identical or fraternal twin, but I do know that there are many, many times when I wake up and say to Cindy, “Man, I had some weird dreams last night!” and she’ll say, “Me too, stop sharing!” or vice versa. So I wonder; does proximity to another person cause, perhaps not the specific dream to be shared but a general “kind” of dream (weird, erotic, nightmare, etc.) to “bleed over” into their unconscious?

Number three is also beyond my knowledge as I’ve never tried to track the correlation of the two.

Number four is not the case with me, even though I am over 55 and watched TV in black and white until the time I was 11 or so, with the exception of one dream I had about the Roy Rogers TV show when I was around that age, which was in black and white. Otherwise, all my dreams I can remember have been in color.

Number five is another one beyond my knowledge as I’ve never tracked the correlation of how different cheeses affected my dreams.

Number six is a big “Yes!” for me. There have been SO many times that sounds in the real world have integrated themselves into my dreams in completely logical ways. Obviously, this also happens to many people as we have seen the story point of knocking on a door, an alarm or calling someone’s name used time after time to move a character from sleep to wakefulness.

What do you think about these six things affecting your dreams? Have any of them influenced your dreams?

 

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Hiking To Devil’s Head And Exclamation Point

Hiking up to Chimney Rock was fun and we had some great views, but there was still more to do at Chimney Rock State Park and new heights to climb that were even higher than Chimney Rock.

After we came back down from Chimney Rock, Amber suddenly realized she had dropped her glasses and went looking for them while Cindy and Abby walked over to the snack area to sit in the shade and cool down. I, on the other hand, decided to hike even higher than the 315 foot tall spire at an elevation of 2,280 feet that we had stood on where the flag was located, after Amber assured me she did not need any help looking for her glasses

First stop is up to Devil’s Head, which is probably 75 feet higher that where we had been. That doesn’t sound like much, but the wooden stairs up to it are almost straight up at switchback angles. At about the halfway point on the steps, you can stop and get some beautiful shots of the spire and people on it below.

Halfway up to Devil's Head I stop and take this shot of where we had all just been a few minutes earlier.

Halfway up to Devil’s Head I stop and take this shot of where we had all just been a few minutes earlier.

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Walk out to the end of this outcropping, look to your left and you'll be greeted by the sight of The Devil's Head.

Walk out to the end of this outcropping, look to your left and you’ll be greeted by the sight of The Devil’s Head.

The Devil’s Head is what is known as a balancing rock (also called balanced rock or precarious boulder), and is a naturally occurring geological formation featuring a large rock or boulder, sometimes of substantial size, resting on other rocks, bedrock or on glacial till. The Devil’s Head rests on a cliff and looks like it should topple off at any moment.

Can you see The Devil's Head?

Can you see The Devil’s Head?

After Devil’s Head, it’s another 125 feet or so up the very highest point on the mountain, known as Exclamation Point. Like the steps to Devil’s Head, it’s straight up, but instead of wooden steps (there are a few) the majority of the trail is flattened rock steps at irregular intervals, dirt trails and trails of gravel through brush and trees. I was glad to see I wasn’t the only one who had to make several stops to rest along the trail.

Stopping partway up the trail to Exclamation Point, you can still see Lake Lure but the trees below are now obscuring the rock spire with the flag.

Stopping partway up the trail to Exclamation Point, you can still see Lake Lure but the trees below are now obscuring the rock spire with the flag.

Reaching the top, which is 2, 480 feet in elevation, is very much worth it, whether you’re happy to have conquered the trail or to enjoy the view, or both.

The view from the top is amazing.

The view from the top is amazing.

Another shot with people in it to show the perspective of man to mountain.

Another shot with people in it to show the perspective of man to mountain.

I was exhausted when I reached the top and spent several minutes just enjoying the view and the breeze while I recuperated. Getting back down was easier in some ways but harder on the old knees in other ways. But, we’re not finished yet at Chimney Rock State Park. In fact it’s not even lunch time yet and we have more hikes to take.

 

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James Garner Kissed My Mother-In-Law

james_garner_garner_files_covers325pxI was saddened to open my Twitter feed this morning and learn that actor James Garner had passed away Saturday at the age of 86. I never knew or met Mr. Garner, but my mother-in-law did.

When I was a young lad of 6 or 7 my father was a huge fan of westerns on TV. I had not yet fully developed my love of science fiction-themed TV shows by that point, but I did know that westerns were not my favorite brand of entertainment. With the exception of one…”Maverick.”

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“Maverick” starred James Garner in the title role as a poker player from Texas who traveled to various towns in the old American West dispensing wisdom, justice and humor. His irreverent portrayal of the quintessential Old West hero was what drew me to his character; he wasn’t like Matt Dillon or Roy Rogers or Ben Cartwright. He was more like your older brother who let you in on the real story while pretending to go along with the crap that was being passed off as the truth.

 

 

james-garner-as-jim-rockford250pxThe next time I saw James Garner on TV was in my late teens when “The Rockford Files” debuted on TV. Again, his portrayal of Jim Rockford, Private Investigator was unique in that most of the usual PI tropes were missing. Jim Rockford had no secretary, no office (other than his beat up trailer that was parked near the beach) and most of his contacts were from the seamier side of the city. This wasn’t Joe Mannix or Barnaby Jones.

Later in life I enjoyed his Polaroid commercials with Mariette Hartley in which their on-air chemistry was so good that many people though they were married in real life, and his role as Reverend “Tank” Sullivan in the 2000 movie “Space Cowboys.”

But back in 1971, my mother-in-law experienced a much more intimate connection with Mr. Garner.

My father-in-law was a POW in Vietnam at the time and his wife was involved in many, many efforts to bring those prisoners and her husband home safely. At one of the events to keep the plight of these prisoners and their return in the public eye, Mr. Garner was in attendance and my mother-in-law stood on her tip-toes, kissed him on the cheek and thanked him for appearing to help the efforts of so many wives and families who wanted to bring their loved ones home from prison in Vietnam. He stopped and asked her how long my father-in-law had been a prisoner, told her he hoped that my father-in-law would be released as soon as possible and then leaned over from his 6’3” height and kissed her on the cheek.

Even today, so many years later, her face lights up when she recounts the experience of how kind, considerate and caring he was when talking to her during that difficult, difficult time.

R.I.P. James Garner. You entertained generations of people with your talents and skills, and made a very special lady in my life smile in remembrance through her sadness of your passing.

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Throwback Thursday – Cindy And Her Mom At Sacré-Cœur In May 2007

The past few days I’ve been reviewing photos from our trip to France in the Spring of 2007. This is one of my favorites with Cindy and her mom standing in front of La Basilique du Sacré Cœur de Montmartre, just outside of Paris.

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Hiking To The Top Of Chimney Rock

On Thursday morning, June 26, 2014, Cindy, Amber, Abby and I packed a picnic and ourselves into the car and drove to Chimney Rock State Park to hike to the top of Chimney Rock.

This is the view of Chimney Rock from the parking lot. We're going to walk 491 steps to the top of this rock, where you see the American flag,

This is the view of Chimney Rock from the parking lot. We’re going to walk 491 steps to the top of this rock, where you see the American flag,

Abby, Amber and Cindy trekking up the wooden stairs.

Abby, Amber and Cindy trekking up the wooden stairs.

The white arrow points to where I was standing when I took the first photo in this post. This shot is from about one-third of the way up to the top of Chimney Rock.

The white arrow points to where I was standing when I took the first photo in this post. This shot is from about one-third of the way up to the top of Chimney Rock.

Amber, Abby and Cindy about one-third of the way up.

Amber, Abby and Cindy about one-third of the way up.

Yours truly with Lake Lure in the background.

Yours truly with Lake Lure in the background.

At this point we're almost to the top. The stairs above us in this shot are the last ones to the top, which is just out of view on the left. Please take note that other than the support columns, there is nothing but open air beneath the steps.

At this point we’re almost to the top. The stairs above us in this shot are the last ones to the top, which is just out of view on the left. Please take note that other than the support columns, there is nothing but open air beneath the steps.

We made it!

We made it!

Abby and Amber celebrating their ascension to the top of Chimney Rock!

Abby and Amber celebrating their ascension to the top of Chimney Rock!

Grandma and Abby standing at the top of Chimney Rock.

Grandma and Abby standing at the top of Chimney Rock.

Granddad and Abby standing at the top of Chimney Rock.

Granddad and Abby standing at the top of Chimney Rock.

I am extremely proud of Amber. The idea of walking up and then back down stairs that have nothing but air underneath them is extremely frightening to her, but she bravely and courageously did so and showed how much heart she has! I salute her!!

I am extremely proud of Amber. The idea of walking up and then back down stairs that have nothing but air underneath them is extremely frightening to her, but she bravely and courageously did so and showed how much heart she has! I salute her!!

 

 

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We Are The Introverts

Over at Incidental Comics, Grant Snider has this nice comic (as well as many, many more about different aspects of human nature and the human experience)  about introverts.

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Calvin’s Final Talk With Hobbes

calvin_hobbes_hugging325pxI am a huge fan of “Calvin and Hobbes” and have mourned their absence of original strips since Bill Watterson retired the strip almost 20 years ago.

But I wasn’t always such a huge fan.

When the strip first debuted almost 30 years ago I was not impressed. My initial reaction was, “What a brat!”, lol, and I remember thinking, “If I had said even SOME of the things this little twerp says when I was a boy, my mom would have beaten me within an inch of my life.”

 

But every day the strip appeared in my local newspaper and eventually I found my eyes drawn to the bratty little kid and his make believe tiger. I slowly began to find myself laughing at the cultural, political and psychological commentary Watterson was making through the strip and it wasn’t long before “Calvin and Hobbes” became the first strip I would read each day when I opened up the comics section.

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Yesterday my daughter, remembering her dear old dad’s fondness for the strip, sent me this link that chronicles (unofficially) the final talk between Calvin and Hobbes, on this plane of existence, at least. I will admit to being a bit teary-eyed by the time I reached the end, because the story explores those elements of childhood that most of us seem to leave behind in our rush to adulthood.

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I don’t know who wrote this “conversation” and I can’t tell from the post because it looks like, from the “This Guy Just Changed The Way We See Calvin And Hobbes. Seriously.” line that dalaffalolz is just posting this from somewhere else. But to whomever the author might be, I tip my hat to you for the wonderful end to the story that was started so many years ago.

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