Throwback Thursday – Michael, Stephanie Visit Orlando 2007

Today’s Throwback Thursday takes us back to March of 2007 when Michael and Stephanie came down from NYC to visit my daughter Ann. Stephanie and Ann have been friends since high school and remained so after Stephanie moved back to the Big Apple and met her future (and now) husband Michael. It was great to see my “other daughter” and I know Ann enjoyed the visit so much.

As a side note; when I was in NJ in 2013 and took the train up to New York City to spend the day with Michael and Stephanie walking around Chinatown and Little italy (which was a LOT of fun for me), Michael was very courteous to me when my old man memory (or lack thereof) made me say “Nice to meet you.” because I didn’t recall our meeting in Orlando when this photo was taken. My face was red, but he was very kind.

Michael, Stephanie and Ann in March of 2007 in Orlando

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Did You Know…About Beard Oil?

Beard Oil BenefitsI’ve grown and shaved off beards several times in my beard-shaving life. So much so that I wish I had listened to my dad when he tried to tell me that my desire at the age of 12 to shave off the extremely long peach fuzz on my face would result in countless mornings over numerous years of having to shave off the resulting coarser stubble if I wanted to remain clean shaven. He warned me that daily shaving is no fun.

Alas, I did not listen.

For the last 20 years, at least, I have always kept a goatee. I have watched it (and the hair on my head) turn from its original naturally dark blonde to its current naturally light gray. In those ensuing 20 years, I’ve probably only let my full beard grow out 3 or 4 times and have watched it grow out grayer and grayer as well. I usually ended up shaving the beard off because:

  1. Job requirements
  2. It was depressing seeing all that gray on my face
  3. Cindy has a preference for a clean-shaven face (even though she’s never seen my naked upper lip, philtrum or chin)

But a couple of months ago I decided to let it grow out again. The hell with the gray! I’m an old fart now, so what does it matter?

My father-in-law asked me what I’m trying to hide, but with a face that looks like mine I think it’s obvious, lol.

How to use Beard OilNow, a problem I’ve always encountered with a beard (and even my constant goatee) is that it itches, feels dry and produces flakes of goatee or beard “dandruff” which is especially aggravating when I’m wearing a dark or black shirt that ends up looking like it has snowed on my chest. I’ve tried using shampoo/conditioner and even just conditioner on my goatee or beard when showering, but the results were often hit or miss.

But the other day I was reading Wil Wheaton’s Tumblr page where he is currently answering questions about virtually anything that involves his life, interests and beliefs. Wil has also been growing out a very impressive beard over the past few months and someone asked him, “Do you use beard oil?”

“Beard oil?”, I thought to myself, “What the hell is beard oil??”

“Yes, I do”, Wil answered, “I use Modern Beard Oil.”

I Googled it, looked it over and thought, “Hmmm, this might be the answer.”

I don’t know WHY I’ve never heard of beard oil before this. In my younger days I probably would have seen something about it in GQ magazine, but I haven’t read that magazine in at least 25 years and can’t recall that I’ve ever actively used their website. It’s never come up in conversation with other men, though I don’t see why it ever would. I guess I’m just a clueless, uninformed, non-fashionable guy.

Beard OilHere’s the kicker, though. After reading up on beard oil I say to Cindy, “Have you ever heard of beard oil?”

“Oh yeah.”

Wait, what? You’re the one, I’m thinking to myself, who suggested I use conditioner to reduce the flaking effect, but you never mentioned beard oil?

Before I can voice that she says, “Well, I’ve heard of it but I don’t know much about it.”

So I start telling her that this site has these beard oils in different scents and with different oils like jojoba, coconut and tea tree at which point she says, “You know, I have all those same oils that I use in making my candles and fragrance oils, you want to try one of them?”

Um, yeah!

So she brings me a pinewood-scented, jojoba oil based bottle of the stuff and I’ve been using it for about a week and it really seems to be working well. I smell like a forest when I first rub in the 2-3 drops it takes to condition my beard and goatee, but I’ve had less itching and almost no flaking. And I’ve been filling in my abysmal lack of knowledge about beard health by watching The Beard Baron on YouTube.

Now my only remaining question is, “How long do I let this thing grow?”

Baby with beard

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Moving Day® Orlando March 14th – Parkinson’s Benefit

MovingDay logo for Parkinson's DiseaseSaturday, March 14th at 9am will see the annual Moving Day® Orlando event to benefit the Parkinson’s Foundation at Crane’s Roost Park in Altamonte Springs.

The Moving Day® Orlando website offers this description of the event:

Moving Day® is the National Parkinson Foundation Central Florida’s annual fundraising walk/run event. It is a fun and inspiring fundraising event that unites families, friends and communities both large and small in the fight against Parkinson’s disease. This celebration of movement will feature a family friendly walk course, a kids area, a caregivers relaxation tent and a special Movement Pavilion featuring yoga, dance, Tai Chi, Pilates, etc. all proven to help manage the symptoms of PD.

My mother-in-law has Parkinson’s, as did her late father, Charles William Kinney, and it is in his honor that many of our family members will be taking part in the walk. With our matching “Perkins Pack” t-shirts, we’ll all take turns accompanying “Granny” around the course, whether she is running, walking or sitting comfortably while being guided around the course in her stylishly black “Grannymobile” wheelchair.

Brain shape with Parkinson's Disease symptom wordsThe Mayo Clinic defines Parkinson’s Disease:

 

Parkinson’s disease is a progressive disorder of the nervous system that affects your movement. It develops gradually, sometimes starting with a barely noticeable tremor in just one hand. But while a tremor may be the most well-known sign of Parkinson’s disease, the disorder also commonly causes stiffness or slowing of movement.

In the early stages of Parkinson’s disease, your face may show little or no expression or your arms may not swing when you walk. Your speech may become soft or slurred. Parkinson’s disease symptoms worsen as your condition progresses over time.

Although Parkinson’s disease can’t be cured, medications may markedly improve your symptoms. In occasional cases, your doctor may suggest surgery to regulate certain regions of your brain and improve your symptoms.


If you can come out and participate, donate or watch and cheer the participants on during Moving Day® Orlando, it would mean a lot to the Parkinson’s Foundation and to those who are participating.

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In Memoriam – Barbara J. Wetherington

In Memoriam – Barbara J. Wetherington, July 8, 1934 – February 27, 2010

I miss you every day Mom.

Barbara J. Wetherington

Mom in 2003 at her desk in the Deaf Services Center where she was an interpreter for the deaf.

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Throwback Thursday – Cindy At Universal Studios 2006

Cindy shows that the world revolves around her during our visit to Universal Studios in 2006 for this week’s Throwback Thursday.

Cindy in front of the Universal Studios revolving globe in 2006.

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Superman Is, After All, An Extraterrestrial

I don’t know where I got this from, but it makes me laugh every time I see it, because I can just imagine this is how it would be the first time Lois Lane sees Superman’s junk.

Lois Lane sees Superman's junk

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EMT Car Accident Phone Scam

Phone Scam WarningI was sitting at my desk Sunday afternoon working on some research when my cell phone rang. The number that came up was 407-539-4401, which I didn’t recognize. I don’t usually answer calls from numbers I don’t recognize, preferring to let them go to voicemail and checking who they are from later at my convenience, but for some reason I answered this one, using my Bluetooth headset.

Me: Hello.

Male Caller: Hello. I’m an EMT with Florida Hospital and we’re at the scene of a car accident with an unconscious adult female with no ID on her and no one else in the vehicle. This number was listed as an emergency contact on her phone, can you tell me who I’m speaking to, please?

Phone Scam WarningNow, I should mention that I have heard about this type of call, so I didn’t panic as someone might usually do when hearing such news. Chances are most of us know a female who could conceivably be driving and could possibly be involved in an accident. The natural instinct to help someone we may possibly know overrides our barrier to identifying ourselves to someone we don’t know and we answer without thinking it through. That is human nature and scum like this capitalize on it.

In Orlando, there are really only three adult females who would have my number listed as an emergency contact, my wife, daughter and stepdaughter. I knew my wife was at the Lake Eola Farmers Market and would not be driving around, so as I asked the caller the logical question…

Me: You mean to tell me there’s no name attached to the emergency contact number? I’ve never heard of such a thing.

…at the same time I was texting both my adult daughter and adult stepdaughter asking them if they were at home.

Phone Scam WarningMale Caller: (In a very smooth manner, as if he’s been asked this before) No sir, you’d be surprised how many people just insert a number with no name or relation. What was your name, sir?

At the same time I received a reply from my daughter saying she was at home and why was I asking, lol. I texted I would tell her later and asked the caller,

Me: What kind of car is she driving?

Male caller: It’s a dark, late model car, but I’m not sure what the make or model is. Do you know this victim, sir?

My stepdaughter has a dark car but it’s definitely not a late model. And I can’t imagine her driving somewhere on a Sunday without my granddaughter in the car.

Me: Where is the accident?

Male caller: At Orange Avenue and Princeton. Sir, your name?

I still haven’t heard back from my stepdaughter, but I know this call is SO fishy I could can it and call it tuna.

Me: I don’t know who that could be, and you don’t either so go try another scam.

Male caller: I must have a wrong number. (And he hung up)

I called my wife and, just to be extra-cautious, asked her if she had talked to her daughter in the last hour, and told her about the call. My stepdaughter called me a few minutes later. She had been napping and missed my text.

Phone Scam WarningAt first I thought this was a simple identity theft call hoping to social engineer information out of me, but when I “Googled” the phone number 407-539-4401 it turns out this is a scam designed to get you to pay for “treatment” with a credit card and then threatening to shoot the “victim” in the head if you don’t comply. There’s a whole webpage of people that have fallen victim to this monstrous kind of call.

I just want to urge everyone who gets a call like this to stop, take a breath, don’t give out information and YOU be the one to ask questions. Very few people drive without SOME form of ID; most people who put emergency contact information on their cell phone include the name and relationship to that contact (spouse, sibling, parent, child, friend, etc.), and if someone is rushing you or pressing you to do or say something the odds are they mean no good to come from it, at least no good to you.

 

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Are We In Danger Of Losing Our Digital Memories?

Last week the “father of the Internet” (no, not Al Gore), Vint Cerf, sounded an alarm about the preservation of digital information, specifically our personal writings and photographic memories, but also government records. His concern is not the disappearance of the actual digital files, but rather the presence of a software program designed to read, render and display the digital file.

Vint Cerf

Said Cerf, “We don’t want our digital lives to fade away. If we want to preserve them, we need to make sure that the digital objects we create today can still be rendered far into the future.”

Floppy disksI understand what he means. When I started using a computer the text files were plain text stored on 5 ¼” inch floppies (which were really floppy; soft and bendable). Images were bitmaps, large and clunky. Then we moved to Rich Text Format (RTF) documents and images that were in the Joint Photographic Experts Group (JPEG) format and stored on 3 ½ inch disks. I started using a program to write my text documents in the late 1990’s, but that program disappeared and I had to try and convert those files to something like Microsoft Word. Then I began storing files on ZIP drive disks (remember those?) and using programs that have since gone the way of the Dodo. Then I moved to CD’s for file storage, then Flash or Thumb drives and now external hard drives and the cloud.

Most of my documents today are either plain text, basic RTF, or PDF and almost all of my images are JPEG’s, though I have some of my more important images in a Tagged Image File Format (TIFF) as well for quality. I have redundant external hard drive backups as well as cloud-based storage of documents and images, but Cerf may be right when he says, “If there are photos you really care about, print them out.”

After all, it’s not that we have the digital files, it’s will we always have programs to interact with or display them. It would be a shame, both personally and culturally, for us to enter a “Digital Dark Ages”, as Cerf puts it in this article.

“When you think about the quantity of documentation from our daily lives that is captured in digital form, like our interactions by email, people’s tweets, and all of the world wide web, it’s clear that we stand to lose an awful lot of our history.” – Vint Cerf

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Throwback Thursday – Kentucky Ice February 2009

Today’s Throwback Thursday takes us to the Bluegrass State of Kentucky when I was there in February of 2009 and a frozen waterfall. Current weather reports indicate it looks just about the same this year.

Frozen waterfall in Kentucky

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National Drink Wine Day

If there were ever an activity that deserves its own day of recognition, it is National Drink Wine Day. Not that I need an excuse, mind you.

National Drink Wine Day image

But as their website declares, “The purpose of National Drink Wine Day is to spread the love and health benefits of wine. We embrace the positive benefits of wine such as new friends, reduced risk of heart disease and the enhancement of food and life.”

Bottles of French WinesOne of my favorite parts of our trip to France a few years ago was the abundance of varieties of French wine and the fact that wine was so plentiful, you could buy a bottle for about $2-3 in American currency. Every restaurant we dined in would offer a glass of wine for a cheaper price than a glass of Coke. We would go to the store when we were in Paris/Montmartre or to a farmer’s market when we were in the Loire Valley, and buy several bottles and kinds of wine and spend the evening deciding which we liked best. It was simply fantastic to try so many kinds, especially the local wines in the Loire Valley.

Here in America I’ve had the pleasure of touring (and tasting the fruits of) vineyards in Florida, Tennessee, and North Dakota (believe it or not!) and I look forward to taking a trip to California one day and visiting as many wineries there as I can, lol.

So raise a glass, or two, and drink a toast to National Drink Wine Day!

 

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